Do you ever find yourself feeling like you’re not sexy enough? Or maybe you feel as though your clothes make your body look sloppy. First of all, let’s just get this out of the way: You are being looked at by a lot of people, and what they see is you. So if the first thought that pops into their heads is that your butt isn’t tight or your breasts aren’t perky, then something might be wrong with them.
What is the difference between sexy and slutty?
Sexy is an attitude that shows someone is comfortable with who they are. Slutty is the opposite. The latter feels like an act, like a performance of sexuality
What if my office doesn’t allow short skirts or low-cut tops?
By all means, don’t wear them! You should never sacrifice yourself to make other people feel comfortable. It’s your body. You should be allowed to dress comfortably at work (within reason of course). If you’re wearing clothing that gets too awkward or unduly sexualized, then maybe you need to rethink your work environment as well. Companies can change, but sometimes it takes you to change them for the better.
I’m not conventionally attractive. What can I do to make myself feel more attractive?
You can start by changing your attitude! Find out what you like about yourself, and focus on it. If your eyes are lovely, then flaunt them with big eyeliner and a bold color contact lens. If you have beautiful hair, then dye it in fun colors or show it off with a fashionable chignon. Try to put the spotlight on what makes you unique. Everyone has something they can celebrate.
There are plenty of men who like women over a size six!
And there are plenty of men who don’t, including many of the ones that haven’t met a girl in person yet. That’s okay! Take your time. You have to develop your unique image. You shouldn’t let anyone else’s opinions dictate how you feel about yourself.
What if I’m fat and don’t want my body at all?
First of all, you should never feel as though your body is something that needs to be fixed. It’s great just the way it is, and why shouldn’t you love it? If a bit of extra weight makes you feel safer, then maybe it’s worth it for you. But whatever you decide, be comfortable in your skin. I think I’m ugly. You are a beautiful person, and you’re nobody’s idea of bangable. If you feel like your nose is too big, that your eyes are too small, that your chin is too square, or that your lips are too fat… then maybe it’s time to look at yourself differently. Maybe there’s something good right under the surface that you just need to look for. Maybe it’s worth it just to find out.
What if I’m an attractive woman who has trouble getting dates?Â
Anything I can do to make myself look more desirable? I hate how I’m dressed! It hurts my confidence! First of all, women need to own themselves. And when you don’t feel like you’re attractive enough, it usually means that you are looking at yourself through the eyes of other people. Start asking what it is exactly that makes you feel sexy. What do you like about yourself? Go through your wardrobe, and discover what looks the best on you! You might want to try a different hairstyle or makeup routine. Maybe your clothes are restricting movement too much or making you feel uncomfortable. Try a new outfit out! Even if it feels silly, it’s worth feeling good about yourself for a change. Just remember to own yourself by being true to who you are and not bowing down to squeeze into somebody else’s idea of beauty.
Conclusion
To conclude, I’ll give you the last bit of advice that you’ll ever need: You are beautiful. And if you don’t believe that, then it’s probably time to start! There is a lot of personal, individual power in our own hands, but it’s up to us to do what we want and embrace who we are. This is the best possible way to look amazing every single day.
